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I have decided to consolidate my blogs so all new Evelina and mama-related posts will be over at all five horizons under the ‘mama’ category.

The Future of This Blog!

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Evelina on Instagram

Here are some of my favourite Instagram Evelina shots:

Oh No! Toothypeg!

After an unfortunate incident where Evelina faceplanted onto the laminate floor, her beautiful front tooth is now chipped FOREVER (well, until her big teeth come through at least!). She looks like a right little rogue now!

Someone To Watch Over Her

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child care, childminder

In the excitement of being accepted onto the PGCE course in September, there was just one thing that prevented me from being overjoyed. From September, I will not longer be able to enjoy spending five days a week with Evelina. Not only that, I need to find someone who is suitable for the job of looking after her for the extra three working days.

At the moment, I am looking for a childminder rather than a nursery place. With the changing hours and the fact that Rich is often travelling, I need a bit of flexibility with the hours. I want to find someone who is prepared to be flexible, who I like and who will take good care of Evelina. It’s so important that I find the right person – I don’t think I will really be able to get fully excited about starting my training until I find someone who is practically perfect in every way.

 

At The Park

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16 Months Old

Tummy Time

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Annabel Karmel, Baby food, HiPP, Organic

When it comes to being Evelina’s mama, I have been surprised at how much came naturally. Admittedly, I had done a lot of preparatory reading while I was pregnant but once she was born, I found myself abandoning the ‘how tos’, opting to go with my gut and for the most part, this worked out just fine.

And then came weaning. For some reason, I have struggled with the whole solid food thing from the get-go. It is an area which I have never felt relaxed about. I wonder if this is because of my own complex and sometimes dysfunctional relationship with food (I am overweight and I struggle to be disciplined with food) or whether it is because food is one of the most basic needs we have as a human being so I know now important it is that Evelina eats enough of the right things.

Evelina’s teeth didn’t grow very quickly and I think that had an impact on the types of food that she was able to enjoy. While the NHS advice was to have them eating what we were eating as soon as possible, this just didn’t seem practical when she couldn’t chew. I relied heavily on organic baby food and found the baby food brand websites like HiPP Organic a useful source for  weaning advice and recipes. I also got a lot of advice from friends. One tip was to replicate the pre-prepared baby food that Evelina enjoyed. I also did a lot of batch cooking, although I tended to keep the recipes fairly simple since it was hit and miss whether she was going to eat them.  Annabel Karmel is a very popular source of recipes and advice but her books are so complicated and use so many ingredients that I found it totally demoralising. I would spend ages making this delicious meal that Evelina would then refuse, while Rich and I were eating beans on toast!

Nowadays, I still struggle with it but it is getting easier – I find it hard for her to eat what we are eating every day since she eats so early and when I am working, I can’t get a meal ready for her and us in time for tea. And she would eat cheese sandwiches for every meal, if she had her way. I am constantly worried she isn’t eating enough (of the right things at least) or eating too much. I still use shop-bought baby food occasionally and I try not to beat myself up about this since I always buy the ‘better’ brands with only good things in them. I am starting to realise that when Evelina goes through phases – she will eat well for a few days or even weeks and then will go back to having less food. I think I just have to go with it and resist the urge to keep offering different food if she isn’t interested in what I have given her. While her teeth are still coming through, she is bound to have days which are better than others and I just need to make sure she isn’t developing fussy eating habits.

So now I am sticking to some these principles:

• keep it simple
• save food for Evelina from our meals where possible for the next day’s lunch or tea
• batch cook when I have time and freeze in portions
• stop worrying – she certainly seems to be thriving!

15 Months

I have so much to write about Evelina and the last three months since my last monthly update but for now I will just share this video which features walking (!) and a bit of talking (kinda) and throwing of ball.

Milk ‘Tache

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Cuteness